Jumping back into the chaos šŸŒŖļøšŸŒŸ

Published on 10 January 2025 at 20:03

Alright, here we go. I sat down to write this, and honestly? I had zero clue what to talk about. Literally nothing came to mind. But then I figuredā€”why not just roll with it? Sometimes life feels a bit like that, doesnā€™t it? A bit chaotic, a bit all over the place, but somehow, it all comes together in the end.

So, school/homeschool/work is back, and I donā€™t know about you, but Iā€™m definitely feeling a mix of ā€œfinally, structure!ā€ and ā€œwhat is going on?!ā€ One second Iā€™m lounging around during the winter break, and the next, Iā€™m drowning in life, trying to remember how to actually function. Itā€™s mad how quickly we go from chilled vibes to full-on chaos mode, isnā€™t it?

But hereā€™s the thing about this time of yearā€”itā€™s like, youā€™ve got all these goals, right? A fresh start, new opportunities, high hopes. And thatā€™s exciting, but itā€™s also kind of... a lot. Like, Iā€™ve got this weird habit of hyping myself up to be amazing at literally everything, only to then feel completely drained before Iā€™ve even started. Anyone else?

I think we put way too much pressure on ourselves. Itā€™s like weā€™re all trying to prove weā€™ve got it together, but truth is, no one does. And honestly? Thatā€™s okay. Lifeā€™s messy. Itā€™s up and down. Itā€™s exciting and exhausting all at once. But maybe we donā€™t have to have it all figured out straight away. Maybe the best thing we can do is just... take it day by day and celebrate the little things.

For exampleā€”and donā€™t laughā€”Iā€™m getting a retainer/Invisalign soon. I know, not exactly groundbreaking, but Iā€™m actually really excited. Itā€™s a small step, but itā€™s a step, right? And I reckon thatā€™s what lifeā€™s aboutā€”those tiny victories. They might seem silly, but they add up. And if we can stop stressing about everything we havenā€™t done yet, and start cheering ourselves on for the stuff we have done, life feels a bit lighter.

So, hereā€™s my point (finally, I know): donā€™t let the pressure of being perfect get to you. None of us have it all together, and thatā€™s totally fine. This year, letā€™s try to be a bit kinder to ourselves. Celebrate the wins, even if theyā€™re small. Made it through a rough week? Win. Got out of bed when you didnā€™t feel like it? Win. Didnā€™t forget your headphones/keys? Massive win.

Weā€™re all in this together, figuring it out one day at a time. So take it easy on yourself, yeah? And remember: messy, chaotic, beautiful life is still life. Youā€™ve got this.

Remember your worth,

Summer-Rose H xxx

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